The Elia is a Wedding & Event Venue located in the heart of Downtown Wilmington.  Surrounded by local hotels, boutiques, cafe’s, restaurants, bars and the iconic and picturesque Riverwalk. Your guests will experience the history and fall in love with its coastal charm.

About The Elia

Our love for Wilmington runs deep + our commitment to creating community and showing kindness to everyone we encounter is at the core of our business and our team will strive to create an unforgettable space and experience for not only our clients, but their cherished friends & family.

Our team is dedicated to making sure you have the best experience possible so that you can focus more on hosting your guests and less on the logistics.

Meet The Owner

The Elia is a family owned and operated venue, under the leadership of Brittanie Pate. Brittanie’s career is endowed with impressive industry knowledge + vendor relations gained through decades of experience in venue management, event planning, catering and sales.

Brittanie also runs her own wedding planning business, Brittanie Raquel Events, which is also local to the Wilmington, NC area.

Meet Our Team

  • Director of Sales & Marketing

    Why I love this job: “I’ve always loved weddings & events, whether I was attending or watching them in movies, but my true passion is hospitality. Most of my experience has been in serving others and design, From working in restaurants marketing internships, to volunteering at my church - nothing makes me happier than seeing people smile because of an experience I helped create.

    For me hospitality isn’t just a job, its joy, connection and a way to make every moment a little more special.”

  • Director of Guest Experience

    Why I love this job? “I am passionate about creating meaningful moments for our guests by focusing on the details that make each event special. I take pride in helping coordinate events that allow people to be truly present for life’s most important milestones. I want every one of our guests to feel welcomed, be confident that our team is here for them so that they can be fully present on their day.“

“The staff at The Elia truly went above and beyond to ensure our event ran smoothly. They were incredibly professional, helpful, and attentive throughout the entire night, always ready to assist with a smile. Even leading up to the event, their communication and support were outstanding, making the planning process seamless and stress-free.

If you’re looking for a venue that combines elegance, top-tier service, and an exceptional team to bring your vision to life, I highly recommend The Elia. We couldn’t be more grateful for the incredible experience they provided!”

NATASHA ANTINORI | MACDONALD REALITY GROUP

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